Listen to your Inborn Voice: guide your personal growth toward authenticity

When strength is only an appearance

Many people live believing they are strong, but deep down they feel that something is disturbing their peace of mind. They wake up every day with a sense of deep unease, feeling they must continue to maintain their credibility. But the truth is that this suffering does not come from being weak or sensitive, but from continuing to pretend to be strong.

Pretending to be something that is not part of us is a bit like wearing a suit that is too tight. In the long run, little by little, it tends to make your breathing shorter. What you believe shows confidence often only shows others your fear of appearing vulnerable, of failing, of disappointing others’ expectations.

As Mylena Vocal Coach writes in her book The Way of the Voice, fear is a lie that the mind repeats so many times that it believes it to be the truth. In reality, over time, a lie builds a rigid, predictable identity that is easy to break for anyone who stops for a second to listen to your voice.

The background noise that surrounds us and your Inborn Voice

We live surrounded by noise. Not only that, we always want more of it. We waste time observing the lives of others through social media rather than living our own. The noise I am talking about is not just sounds, but also thoughts, emotions, and much more. Constant messages that suggest who we should be, how we should live, what we should desire.

As we grow up, at some point we stop listening to our Inborn Voice, the carrier frequency that distinguishes us, and instead of bringing it into the world, we begin to listen to and repeat external noise. Little by little, we lose touch with ourselves and build an artificial identity based on expectations and the need to belong.

That’s when life loses direction. Every day seems the same, relationships become empty. Everything always looks the same. Some lucky people hear a distant echo of their Inborn Voice saying, “This is not my path.” It’s a kind of inner restlessness, or an invitation to return to oneself.

Back to basics: from noise to your own Inborn Voice

Rediscovering your Inborn Voice does not require a specific technique; it is not something linked to the mind, but rather an act of presence, linked to emotions. Learning to be means learning to listen to yourself before speaking, recognizing your emotions before reacting, choosing before deciding. If we want to speak in more spiritual terms, it is a process of liberation from what does not belong to us.

The Inborn Voice method goes far beyond vocal technique to help you speak with confidence and clearly communicate your identity. For those who wish to go deeper, there is much more. One of the most transformative aspects is learning to “tune in” to your Inborn Voice. Each of us is born with a unique vibration, our Inborn Voice, but no one teaches us how to recognize and cultivate it. This is what Inborn Voice vocal realignment is all about. Only in this way can we find the key to well-being, trust, and authenticity.

When the mind stops distracting itself so as not to listen to the silence, the soul opens up to listening and the Inborn Voice finds the space to come out. The body, breathing, and energy become aligned again. From this new harmony comes clarity, meaning that the direction of your life becomes as clear as a beacon on the horizon.

Become like a gutter: let go of what you don’t need.

Not every thought deserves your attention. The mind is greedy but distracted. Similarly, not every emotion requires action. The mind does not like emotions because they are faster than thoughts and it cannot manage them. You need to learn to let what comes flow away, like rainwater in a gutter. Holding on to the superfluous weighs you down and makes you less and less able to let things flow.

This attitude, which may appear to be a form of detachment, is actually what in the East is called awareness. Free will, which is much talked about but little practiced, is choosing what to focus your energy on, what frequency to resonate with. Only by learning to use the mind for what it is, namely a tool, can you consciously direct your own identity.

La scelta che cambia tutto

The first choice, the one to reaffirm every day, is to listen to your Inborn Voice and let the noise of the world flow by. The former brings you back to your origins, the latter takes you further and further away from yourself.

The important thing is to understand that listening to your Inborn Voice is not an exercise. It means rediscovering the inner compass you have always had but have forgotten to use. When you recognize it, everything changes:

• relationships become more sincere,
• decisions clearer,
• and life lighter, because it is finally yours.

Set your voice free

Listening to your Inborn Voice is an act of self-love.
It means stopping chasing after things you don’t need and letting your deepest truth emerge. It means understanding that the voice you hear knocking from within is neither a nuisance nor a doubt: it is your soul that wants to be heard, welcomed, honored.

Would you like to discover your Inborn Voice?

Request a Personal Voice Assessment session with Mylena or one of our certified Coaches below and begin your journey back to yourself.